I know, it sounds so petty doesnt it!
But Im just totally hacked off with family and many of our friends too just expecting us to go visit them! And if we dont we get the usual phone call of - when are you coming to visit us?
I wouldnt mind but the family in mind dont have children and have to work round the usual nap/feed/bed time. DS is almost 1 and I still find it a bind to pack up a bag for him evertime! It would just be nice if others made an effort to visit us once in a while.
Well today, the inlaws comments were the straw that broke the camels back! They commented that they hadnt seen us in a while (a week BTW). So I explained they are very welcome to come and visit us, they dont have to wait for us to come to see them. And the comment was
'Id rather not go out in the bad weather'
I bit my tongue, but I dont know how! I wouldnt mind but neither of them work either like me and DH do. FIL drives, I dont see the issue!
So yes I know I prob Am BU but you see my point dont you?
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to say to family, if you dont visit us then we will stop visiting you?
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cheekster · 29/07/2009 00:57
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