I have used a name I very rarely use, but have done so in the past on occasion.
Right,
My DH has recently gone onto FaceBook.
He has added friends, obviously, but one woman I was really about.
Just as we were getting together, over 13 years ago, DH had a thing woth this woman, it was sexual, he chose her over me at the time, it really hurt me, but we were only a casual thing...anyway, SHE finished it.....me and DH later got together properly, got married and have 3 DCs .
We occasionally see the other person at familys house as she is the friend of a neice, it has always been a bit strained, but ok, she is a lovely person,it's just a bit odd, iyswim , given the history of him fucking me over for her, at the time, which I adnmit IS a long time ago. She knew at the time how I felt about my now DH, but he was the one seeing me, not her, I don't have a grudge against her.
However, I said that it was at the least inappropriate for him to add her as a friend on FB- he said why- I explained that he had in the past really hurt me with this person, and I didn't think it was on.
Thing is, he is a really intelligent bloke, he knows exactly why I wou;ld object- I am not usually jealous or pssesive, but he HAS bee incredibly so in the past, and so would be aware of innappropriate contact...
I don't know-am I being a bit mad?
I really don't mind your answers, honestly.
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I really don't know if i am BU or not- please jury come and give opinions..
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Dragonesque · 26/07/2009 19:44
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