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..to think this is Not On in an adult male??

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MrsIdiot Mon 20-Jul-09 11:33:43

I took the kids to my friends' house for the weekend, which was lovely but of course not all fun since I had to spend the weekend selflessly tending to their every need, getting woken up at 545 etc etc. I left not-so-DP alone to have a bit of Him Time- also to do some of the stuff around the house that you really can't do with three kids and two dogs underfoot.When I got back last night, he hadn't done shag (we're going on holiday later this week)- the house was a complete mess, he hadn't done any holiday stuff, he hadn't even had to get himself a meal because he's gone round my SILs to get fed.Course if he doesn't do these things, means I have to, this week, and I'm already up to me eyes in it.

The lazy greedy bastard.

ANYway, this morning, I wasn't spying,honest. I'd come in on the wrong computer ID without noticing (pc v patriarchal and my partner's ID is the default- there's no password, it goes on automatically).I was doing a college assignment that I hadn't touched since Friday last, so I went straight in on Google history.

And what do you think came up?

"BBC cricket
Jennifer Aniston
Halle Berry's tits
EMMA THOMPSON'S tits"

angry

so now I'm thinking, not only is he lazy, thinks domestic tasks beyond him, inherently sexist, yik yak yik yak...he's an idiot, and he's been looking at tits. Not just any tits, Emma Thompson's tits! My GRANDDAD would've probably put in a similar search! he's not even looking at proper grown up porn,ffs!!

Am SO annoyed. Thought I was living with a reasonably intelligent decent human being for last ten years but now am just thinking he's a twat.

Lou323 Mon 20-Jul-09 11:34:14

lol at google

Lifeinagoldfishbowl Mon 20-Jul-09 11:35:18

What else do you expect - he was home alone and needed a form of release grin

shootfromthehip Mon 20-Jul-09 11:35:36

Your DP, for example, is a twat!!!

PM73 Mon 20-Jul-09 11:36:35

At least he didnt try to hide his internet history,sorry but i find this quite funny.

TheCrackFox Mon 20-Jul-09 11:37:08

Emma Tompson's tits. shock

Your DH sounds like a lazy twat. Get him (if possible) to cough up for a cleaner.

AmazingBouncingFerret Mon 20-Jul-09 11:37:08

LOL Are you sure he didnt turn into a teenage boy whilst you were away?

DesperateHousewifeToo Mon 20-Jul-09 11:38:28

I think I'd rather find what you did than full on porn, personally.

Can understand why you are annoyed at the lack of work being done though. Would royally piss me off too.

mayorquimby Mon 20-Jul-09 11:45:23

can see why you'd be pissed off over him not getting athe work done he'd said he would.
don't see what the problem with watching the ashes and a bit of light porn is.

MrsIdiot Mon 20-Jul-09 11:45:48

PM73- he didn't hide his internet history because he doesn't know HOW.

he really is a twat, isn't he <<<<sobs>>>>

my first thought was that this isn't the search of an adult male, it's DS(11) going in on DPs ID.

Was clutching at straws, tho, DS has been away on residential course for the last week.

angry

ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight Mon 20-Jul-09 12:12:22

Your DS would not be looking at Emma Thompson's tits. My Dad fancies Emma Thompson grin

expatinscotland Mon 20-Jul-09 12:14:44

I can't understand why anyone would waste a minute's time with a lazy, selfish, immature twat masquerading as a person.

DTMFA.

MrsIdiot Mon 20-Jul-09 12:28:49

can I quote you on that, expat, when I serve him his idiot arse on a plate later on?

expatinscotland Mon 20-Jul-09 12:31:46

Feel free. Just think how much less messy your house will be withouth his lazy, sloppy, slatternly arse in it.

crankytwanky Mon 20-Jul-09 12:32:49

I once saw on our Google history my DP had been looking at a site called "Game Birds". I questioned him, but turned out he was looking for a new pigeon supplier! blush

He is a chef, so the explanation stood up to scrutiny. (I did see the site!)

I'd be more miffed with your partner for not doing the jobs arround the house. There's no excuse for that! I'd make sure he kept me supplied with ridiculous cocktails with umbrellas and everything all holiday long.

suwoo Mon 20-Jul-09 12:35:23

grin at Emma thompsons tits. My DH prefers Abby Clancey when he is having a 'googlewank'.

Not sure whether that makes him more or less of a twat than your DH. I'd say more grin

sherby Mon 20-Jul-09 12:37:38

bit harsh expat

She has been with him for what 10 yrs and he leaves the house messy one weekend and looks at some porn

Hardly a divorcing offence

FabBakerGirlIsBack Mon 20-Jul-09 12:40:25

What are you more annoyed about - no jobs done or the searches?

expatinscotland Mon 20-Jul-09 12:41:41

'She has been with him for what 10 yrs and he leaves the house messy one weekend and looks at some porn

Hardly a divorcing offence '

Him time? Give me a break! He knew damn well she was up to her eyes in it, he knew damn well she'd have to do it if he didn't.

And then he didn't.

How disrespectful can you get?

Seriously.

My husband's taken the kids off me to get on with some important stuff that needed done, I can't imagine not doing in and then dropping him in it.

Because it's not very respecting of him.

SweinFeld Mon 20-Jul-09 12:42:18

oh you are so hard ep

expatinscotland Mon 20-Jul-09 12:44:56

Oh, yes, I'm hard. For expecting a person to treat his/her partner or spouse with the same level of respect they're being treated with be they male or female. hmm

MrsIdiot Mon 20-Jul-09 12:45:55

The combination...ie that he didn't do any work because he was busy looking at Emma Thompson's tits.

Can't help thinking ET deserves better than that,after all her humanitarian work etc...

Sorry, Emma. My partner is, after all, a twat.

famishedass Mon 20-Jul-09 12:50:43

aw bless him grin - he sounds like every single man I've ever met.

annK Mon 20-Jul-09 12:51:17

I hear you sister, and I echo your feelings after last weekend (sort of similar trouble):

Thought I was living with a reasonably intelligent decent human being for last seven years but now am just thinking he's a twat.

I am wrecking my brain on what to do, I dont want to spend my life resenting him every day for being a similar twat, I concluded I'd pretend I am a single mother and stop expecting his help for anythihng at all. It does not solve the problem, but I hope I will stop the big green resentment monster inside of me. sad

Judy1234 Mon 20-Jul-09 12:55:04

The other way most of us do it is just not to tolerate or expect someone who doesn't pull their weight from the very first night you're together. Never ever do an unfair task and then divide things up fairly and ensure you're each always responsible for your own jobs. For example for years I never touched the washing machine - it was his domain so I didn't even think about what needed washing and there was a time when I probably didn't nkow how to work it and he did the dishwasher. I plaited the girls' hair, did school bags for next day, bought Christmas presents, did our tax returns. He took children to the dentist always 100% of the time and I did all filing and admin. As long as it's all fiarly done it's fine and never ever give someone a weekend off like that without booking your own equivalent weekend off. When is yours?

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