She is a lovely child. But one of those utterly annoying people who is good at everything.
I even like her mother, despite her being a bit intense and over-involved with her children.
DD is a strange and sensitive soul who does have issues with normal ife but she manages.
Now this friend of DDs tends to 'follow', while being a bit bossy and liking the fact that she tends to be good at stuff.
DD did dancing, friend joined a while later and excelled, DD felt a bit pushed out and stopped going.
DD started playing a musical insrument, a while later friend started too. Friend's mother has long and anguished converstaions about whether insrument is good enough and then gets a bigger, better, nicer one for her DD.
Friend came out of school waving her SATs reults under DDs nose saying oh didn't I do well, Is that all you got.
DD starts reading some theme of books, friend suddenly has all the same books and has read them quicker and tells DD what happens next, so DD doesn't bother to finish them.
Now DD has decided she wants to play a different instrument. I have arranged it with the teacher. This morning friends mum has rung to say as friend has decided she wants to do the same thing she has arranged with teacher they share lessons.
DD is a bit cross. As am I. Why can she not do something different?
I'm finding I am constantly trying to boost DD a bit and explain how she can't be cross for friend's decisions and how much fun they'll have together etc etc etc.
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to be a bit cross with DD's friend?
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EccentricaGallumbits · 20/07/2009 08:55
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