Hi I am not working at the mo and money is tight, last week was my b'day and dh got me nothing except a teddy from the children and said we can't really afford for me to have a b'day present this year. Anyway last night I was checking our bank statement so I knew how much I had to spend at tesco and I saw a charge for £105 to a car cleaning company for car polish! He already needs £80 this month to replace a back box exhaust bit on his car even though there is nothing wrong with it he justs wants to try a different one! I wouldn't mind if it was a nice car but it isn't! So AIBU to think that my dh is selfish to spend £185 on the car and then tell me we can't afford for me to have a b'day present when we are tight on money at the mo? BTW I didn't want anything big from him just some flowers from the supermarket would have done so that I felt he at least had acknowledged my birthday.
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RealityIsMyOnlyDelusion ·
07/07/2009 11:31
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