My DP had a lads night out on Friday - so I very kindly went to stay at my mums with our kids so he could have some friends to stay.( One friend was over from Australia and another had travelled several hours.)
I stayed at my mums Friday and Saturday night giving him plenty of 'man' time - I dropped kids back this am as I had to help my sister this morning.
I rang home at 2pm to see how everyone was - no reply.
I got home at 3pm to DS1 answering the door telling me to be quiet as Daddy and DS2 were having their naps!
DS1 is 4. He was set up watching tv. My DP said he wasn't really asleep he was just resting but I know that it's not true, as I rang an hour earlier and he didn't hear the phone and had no idea that I had rung. So he must have been asleep for over an hour.
I am really annoyed - DP thinks I am over re-acting! Am I ?
LOL, your 4 yr old sounds fab! I think you are being a little unreasonable, as long as the child was safe all is ok. I sometimes (due to tablets) get soooo tired I have to nap otherwise Id fall over, and set my daughter up with a run of teletubbies. But, the control-freak woman in me says if I caught my other half doing it, Id give him what for!
My DS1 managed to open the door by standing on the shoe-rack. He was very pleased to see me pull up on the drive!
I know I am fuming partly because DP has had a lovelt weekend with his friends and I have been putting myslef out for him and then my siter BUT mainly I am pissed off because it was very unsafe for my 4 year old son. Plus our 2 year old could have been awake and crying and he wouldn't have even known he was so hung-over and asleep he didn't even hear the phone ring and me come into the house.