Background. I have a dd aged 4, my brother and sil have a ds aged 4 and a dd aged 18 months. My DP and I have been together nearly 4 years (my dd is my ExHs).
We usually get on quite well, probably see them about 8 times a year as they live 200 miles away. My sil is a SAHM and my DB works very long hours. They have a gorgeous house and lots of holidays etc and are what I'd call well off (this is only relevant because I dont want to AIBU by stealth).
Family party yesterday. My sil suddenly exclaims 'Is (dd) wearing MAKE UP???!!!' I said 'yeah shes been playing with her eyeshadow again', SIL says (about 5 times at top of voice) 'You LET HER HAVE MAKE UP??!!' This went on and I tried to explain that she has some 'play make up', ie I've bought her lipsticks and eyeshadow in childish colours ie blues, greens, bright pink etc and she plays with them at home. She usually smears them all over her face and has great fun. I wouldnt like it if she had 'real' make up and wanted to apply it properly but this type and always looking like a clown I dont mind at all.
SIL says 'You let her have make up and WEAR IT OUT OF THE HOUSE??!' I said, well its a family party, shes not usually allowed to wear it out. So she said 'Where will she wear it to next the nightclub? She'll be pregnant at 12!'
I was pretty annoyed at this. Am I unreasonable to let my 4 (nearly 5) year old dd play with make up? Am I unreasonable for being annoyed at SIL?
Later on we were talking about my pregnancy and SIL asked where new baby would sleep when born. I said 'In with us for 1st 6 months',
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to be annoyed with my SIL?
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DeFluffMyFanjo · 05/07/2009 14:58
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