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AIBU - to be a party pooper?

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cheekster Thu 02-Jul-09 22:48:34

We had planned a small bbq for just the family for DS's 1st birthday.

But thanks to DH, there are 40 + people coming with bouncy castle, face painting, balloon modelling, pinata, lots of beer and wine and all the rest!

I just know it will be all too much for DS!

Im being a party pooper arent I?

AIBU

Thunderduck Thu 02-Jul-09 22:49:35

He can go inside and have a nap surely? He doesn't have to be in the thick of it, all day.

Disenchanted3 Thu 02-Jul-09 22:50:00

bouncy castle, face painting, balloon modelling, pinata,

for a 1 year old?

seriously?

What you gonna do when he hits 10? Hire the Russian State circus?

cheekster Thu 02-Jul-09 22:51:17

Thats my point exactly, disenchanted!

moondog Thu 02-Jul-09 22:51:59

You're a misery.
Fact.

ineedalifelaundry Thu 02-Jul-09 22:52:49

It's too much for a 1 yr old imo. My dd will be one soon - we are having a very low key party with just closest family - 10 people including dd.

cheekster Thu 02-Jul-09 22:53:54

I agree, I am a misery, I just need to enjoy the day dont I!

PrettyCandles Thu 02-Jul-09 22:58:33

Just slightly OTT, perhaps?

Go with the flow, let the fun happen, just make sure that you are in charge of ds's day - he naps when he needs to nap, and he doesn't get passed from pillar to post if it upsets him, no matter that Auntie Nora hasn't had a cuddle yet, or that So-and-So hasn't arrived yet, etc.

slowreadingprogress Thu 02-Jul-09 23:14:21

you are not a misery

that is a ridiculous party for a 1 yr old!

YANBU

cat64 Thu 02-Jul-09 23:17:36

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