Our DD is 6 months old and as a second child doesn't get much attention at all from our extended family, much to our disappointment. My MIL never asked me how I was, felt etc during my pregnancy and her only comment was that I "Looked like a Christmas pudding"! Anyway, my husband's sister was looking after our two kids on a very rare occassion last night. We never go out at all without the kids.
My husband's aunt is in the UK at the moment (She lives abroad) and we are both really fond of her. If anyone is happy to meet our DD2 it will be her, and we were looking forward to introducing them on Tuesday. However, my SIL announced yesterday that my MIL and husband's Aunt had been invited up to her house to "meet the new baby".
I instantly felt really angry as I didn't feel that she was showing any sensitivity to the fact that she's our baby and we'd like to be the one to introduce her to people for the first time. Surely, this is one of the privileges of having a baby. I hate the fact that my husband's family downplay everything as if nothing with any meaning and emotion has any significance.
Do you think I'm being petty or justified in being a bit hurt. What would you do?
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shinyshilling · 27/06/2009 06:59
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