Need help!!!
DW and me have been locked in battle over a party tomorrow...
DW's Dad, has some sort of mystical hold over DW, despite them only seeing each other 2 or 3 times a year...
he told DW a few months ago about this party @ Chigwell, London he was having, we live in North Norfolk..
I estimate will take 3 hours each way, party is from 1-8pm, however we have a 15 month old, who does not do well if his routine is messed up, and is very clingy, and hates strange men... and this week is cutting a double tooth...
so is generally ficking misreable, I look after DS full time DW works....
at present he goes to sleep at approx 7.30, DW wants to go to party and leave at 6pm, I said no way can we keep him awake for a 3 hour journey on way home, and from previous experience he will wake up when we try to get him out of car, and not go back to sleep...
he is a light sleeper, and once woken can take a while to get him off again
so I said I dont want to go, cue fireworks...all week....
I have offered to go but we levae at 4pm, this was not acceptable
I have offered just for DW to go, this was not acceptable.
I have offered for Nan to sit and me and DW can go, this was not acceptable...
DW has gone out tonight and has charged me with finding away that we can go, I have said unless you pull a helicopter out of your ass, we aint going....
she tried talking to her Dad last night, and he was like "chrildren get sick", "chrildren teeth", "no traffic in London on a sataurday".
so we have reached deadlock, DW said we will just have to put with DS being grumpy for a few days after party, I said no, that is not fair...
what do I do, please help!!!!!
am I really being unreasonable, I am the original billy no mates, so could do with some outside opinion please.
AIBU?
To think driving 6 hours is excessive
Aeschylus · 19/06/2009 18:25
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