I have used Mners' really excellent advice to clear up all my worries/issues to date, have only had minor 'troll' accusations, but on the whole, Mner's sdvice has stopped me
1.Needing counselling
2.Getting divorced
so much so I do not have anything to worry about at present!
I want to thank Mners though, also I hope the advice I have proffered under different guises has been equally useful.
My eyesight has taken a turn for the worse using the computer so often and so need to do some eye exercises and not use it so much, also need to get out in the fresh air.
Just want to say thanks to you all really as my life is a lot happier and I am appreciating what I have a lot more 