Some of my Facebook friends (and some of DH's Facebook friends who are my friends in RL but aren't my Facebook friends IYSWIM) put up some pictures of DH and I. For some reason this made me feel really uncomfortable, but I can't quite put my finger on why.
I have no reason to be concerned about security issues (over and above the normal precautions you'd take when using the internet). I suspect it's something to do with the fact that I don't know all of their Facebook friends - it seems a bit odd that people who are strangers to me can access pictures of me freely, whereas the people who posted the photos would (I assume) not bother to show the photos to these people if they only had a hard copy. Also, depending on how the people who posted the photos have set their privacy settings, I may not even be aware of the identity of the people who can see the pictures. Plus, profile updates get put into people's news feeds, so people are (I feel) actively encouraged towards them. It all just feels a bit creepy, basically.
All of the people were perfectly happy to take down those photos that included me, so there's no RL issue behind this, I was just wondering if any other MNers felt the same way, or if IAB peculiar and odd?
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To feel uncomfortable about having my photo on Facebook?
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WildSeahorses · 17/06/2009 11:29
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