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to be really irritated by otherwise pleasant neighbour?

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GoodWitchGlinda Tue 16-Jun-09 20:16:57

YANBU - that would do my head in, too.

Ask him to stand somewhere else as it is coming into your window and as you don't smoke, you are more sensitive to the smell, etc.

Ask him nicely, but stand your ground.

Saucepanman Tue 16-Jun-09 22:46:20

Oh god YANBU- are you going to mention it?

(guess who?!)

FluffyBunnyGoneBad Tue 16-Jun-09 22:47:48

Has my old neighbour just moved next door to you?

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NormaSknockers Wed 17-Jun-09 15:05:17

YANBU - would really get on my nerves too!

junkcollector Wed 17-Jun-09 15:15:54

YANBU. I used to smoke (2 years FREEEEEEE now!!) and when we first moved to our flat I used to smoke outside. The upstairs neighbour quite reasonably and pleasantly asked me to smoke further away from the flat for the very same reason.

She was really reasonable, none aggressive (or passive aggressive) and not at all judgy so I completely understood, didn't mind and moved further away.

Don't know what to do about the cars though...Are you able to jokily ask if he's trying to fume you out of your house or something?

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