I am off sick at the moment. I usually work until 2:30pm on a tuesday if I was at work. When we had a home visit I told her I could have her at my home no later than 5pm as from 6pm onwards we will be eating dinner and then putting DD to bed.
She keeps saying to me, is is ok to call you at x time? And I keep saying to her, I would prefer not to call me after 5:30pm as it is family time, eating, winddown before bed.
I was in work last week until wed, when my gp signed me off sick for 1 week. She is impossible to contact so I left her an email and a voicemail to let her know I would be off until this wed coming, all being well I would return to work on wednesay, call me if any problems, I have a go cert etc. No call from her all week, despite me being in, apart from the odd half hour here and there to get milk from shops etc. On Friday I left the house at 3:45pm and did not return before end of office hours, but no messages on voicemail.
So, this evening at 6:35pm, when we were all sat, DH, DD and I at the table eating our tea, she called me. I normally ignore the phone if I am eating. DH does not and he passed the phone to me.
'pavlov? pavlov its xx, I tried calling you at the end of last week but the phone just kept ringing...'
'ok, not sure why the voicemail did not pick it up...'
'i am just phoning to find out what is going on, i need to know when you are coming back to work'
'did you get my messages last week'
'yes, but I thought I had better phone, in case things have changed'
'i would have called you if things have changed xx, or if I was still poorly I would call you after seeing the gp tomorrow when my sick note runs out, I am returning to work tomorrow, as long as I feel well in the morning'
'so you are feeling better then?'
'right this second yes, you know it varies day to day, but I am hoping to return tomorrow yes'
'oh, ok, well we shall catch up tomorrow then, see you tomorrow'
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I am annoyed for several reasons. One it was a pointless call as I already told her everything there was to know last week, she did not leave a voicemail message (we have an ansafone and if this is full, rarely is, we have Sky messaging service as backup).
But mostly, why did she call me at 6:30pm when I have already told her I am not available at this time? I would not be expected to be working at this time, whether off sick or not!
I hate being interrupted when I am eating. It is so rude.
AIBU or does she indeed own my ass?
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PavlovtheForgetfulCat · 16/06/2009 19:10
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