Am right in the middle of a horrible horrible divorce. Soon to be ExH is being VILE.
He has not seen DD for over six weeks as apparently he has been too busy.
There is a wildlife thing on at the local park that she wanted to go to. I told him about it and he said he would take her. It started at 11am. he said he would arrive by 10.30. I only told dd about it this morning as hes not really very reliable. Got her up, dressed, packed her bag, sun cream and hat on ready waiting by 10.30. By 10.40 me hadnt turned up so i phoned him and he said he would be there in a min. DD was getting upset asking where he was and didnt he like her anymore. At 10.50 i gave up. Put my shoes on locked up the house and walked down to the park with her myself.
He phones at 10.55 shouting at me that he has been banging on my door for 10 mins and im a bitch. I explained that he coldnt have as i had only just left the house. But if he wanted to come and meet DD in the park i would then go home.
I tried to explain to him that it was for reasons like this that he cant have DD overnight at the momment and he just told me, in front of DD to fuck off.
AIBU to expect that if he is running late he could just call? 20 mins late, to him might not seem a lot, but to a 3 year old its ages and she starts getting upset.
AIBU to expect that when he hasnt seen his DD for 6 weeks that he would at least arrive on time?
AIBU if in the future if hes more than 10 mins late, i pack us all up on the car and go out.
Its just all so frustrating.
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AIBU?
Can someone tell me honestly if i am?
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sofrustrated · 13/06/2009 11:56
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