I'm about 24 weeks pregnant and trying really hard to edit a book before the baby comes, while also looking after ds (2) full-time, and dh refuses to help me out in any way. It's not like I didn't consult him before I took it on. It's not like the money won't be really useful. I know he's working really hard just now on our kitchen (that's what the money is supposed to be for!), which he's taken several weeks off work to get on with, but he hasn't once offered to take ds off my hands for a bit so I can get some work done and when I asked him outright he refused! I said 'so I can't take on any more freelance work on until the kids are at school', and he said yes! So, no chance of maintaining any kind of CV so I can actually get a job when the kids are older. As it is I'm getting up at six every morning so I can get some work done before ds wakes up (dh on the other hand lies in sometimes till ten), and then working late in the evenings as well. And even then dh tries to distract me, when the alarm goes off he wants me to stay in bed for you know what, and then sulks. I'm trying really, really hard to be disciplined with my time and I'm knackered and he just doesn't get it. I'm starting to think he's a real chauvinist. I had no idea. It's the same old story, before we had kids we were really equal, and dh even did most of the cooking, now he does nothing round the house, except destroy it at them moment, although I know I'll be glad of it later on, and I have to ask him nicely to as much as take the bin out. I know he's been having problems with anxiety lately and possibly feels I haven't been very supportive, but I'm kind of struggling myself. Sorry about the long rant.
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