I am quite prepared for you all to call me an old fuddy duddy if I am out of step here but.....
My 14 year old niece received a party invite this week.
It went like this
"You are invited to attend ........'s 14th Birthday Party
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Then the clincher for me
"All guests will be served ONE (1) alcoholic drink. If you have a problem with this please let me know".
BIL saw this and instantly hit the roof. He has said there is no way DN is attending. DN who was 14 a few weeks back has also hit the roof and a shouting match has taken place with my poor sster in the middle of it all. To be fair to my BIL they have had a few problems with DN recently - not least the theft of a huge amount of money from BIL's work safe which DN owned up to after she realized how much cash she had actually taken. DN says it was just temptation and she knows it was stupid - all money returned.
So I can quite understand my BIL in saying that she is not attending as he will only have her word that she hasn't had any alcohol.
I am utterly amazed that these parents are even offering alcohol (especially as Dad is a police officer ).
They are apparently doing so "to stop the kids bringing their own".
Am I being unreasonable in being utterly shocked? Or am I an old prude (am 43) whose world will come crashing down around her ears once DS reaches his teens.
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to be a little shocked at this invite? Well am I?
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JollyPirate · 11/06/2009 18:38
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