Now it is entirely possible that I am being unreasonable as I am a walking ball of pregnancy hormones at the moment but here goes...
A while ago, I asked DH if he would like to go and see the film "Angles and Demons" with me. He said he wasn't bothered about seeing it and I should find someone else to go with. I have since organised to go with his 2 best mates and one of thier wives - not the perfect company but at least I get to see the film without having to go on my own.
Tonight, DH tells me that he is going to the cinema with his 2 sisters and that they will be going to see "Angels and Demons". He went to the cinema with one of his sisters last month too.
Now, I love the fact that DH has such a good relationship with his sisters and I usually do all I can to encourage him but this trip has gotten me a bit upset. Not only will it be the second time he has been out with his sisters recently (when I can't remember the last time we went out alone together) but it will be to see the film that he didn't want to see with me.
I know it's hassle when we go out together as we have to fnd a babysitter for DS (usually his parents who live 5 minutes from our house and complain that they don't get to babysit him enough!) but his sisters live a half hour drive away so going out with them involves effort too. He's going to have to go straight to one of thier houses on his way home from work and have dinner with them and won't get home until late - missing DS completely for a day as he leaves before we wake up in the morning.
Now to me - in my admittedly hormonal state - it seems like this particular film is worth making the effort for if he can have a night out with his sisters but is not worth making an effort for if it means spending time with me, his wife.
AIBU to be upset and feel a bit unimportant?
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DH will go on a "date" with his sisters but not with me
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SarahL2 · 10/06/2009 19:32
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