I have a friend who I have been friends with since we were both little. We don't see half as much of each other anymore because of life, work etc and that is totally fine and understandable, but this latest thing has peed me off.
It is my birthday today and so last week mny friend emails to see if I was ok to go out for a meal this Friday. We have done this for each others birthdays for about the past 3 years.
I said Friday was fine. She then emails 2 days ago to say she can't make Friday for a meal afterall because her SIL is being induced on the Fri morning and her hubby (my mates) doesn't drive, so if his sister has the baby Fri night she'd have to go home to take him to the hospital.
I was slightly annoyed by this because I though a) it is unlikely she will have had it by then and b)It is his sister not wife, and i'm sure she won't want a whole load of guests anyway.
Friend said could she just bring my pressie over and have a quick cuppa instead. I said yes, didn't say how dissapointed i was or anything.
So, she has emailed me today to say Happy Birthday and that his sil had the baby last night. I naturally think, 'oh good we can still go out then', but apparently not.
They haven't visited yet and his sil might not be up for visitors until Friday so she probably won't be able to come over at all now and will see me at her mums party next week. She added a PS saying 'if i do get chance to pop in i will let you know'.
This type of thing is constantly happening to me and I am really getting fed up of it.
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to think thats is crappy behaviour from someone who is meant to be a friend ?
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NervousNutty · 10/06/2009 12:23
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