I have just returned to work from second maternity leave and don't want to be here. On paper I have the perfect set up - teacher, 3 days a week, home in time to give DD and DS supper, school holidays off etc. But feel so torn leaving them. DP is supportive and says I can quit if that is what I really want but is worried that if I do leave I may find it hard to ever go back, confidence etc. He also believes a big part in the failure of his parents marriage is that his, housewife, mother resented his father. At the moment its not even really a financial decision as by the time I have paid childcare I take home very small pay packet.
As a woman brought up to believe I could have it all should I feel guilty for wanting to be a SAHM for a bit? If I leave will I get bored and never have the confidence to go back to work and become frustrated and resentful?
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missjules · 10/06/2009 09:19
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