I did post on here a couple of weeks ago about us having fallen out - I wanted to go on holiday for a week, he wanted to go for a few days. Anyway he came round to the idea of going away for a week and we had found a decent deal to Turkey for the end of July. Last Saturday he said I have booked next week off work, I need a break. I am going to see my brother and some friends who live in Birmingham. No worries fine by me.
When I went to call him on Tuesday to say I had booked the time off work, his phone was turned off. I just thought well he is still asleep. It was still turned off in the evening. Wednesday morning I sent him a text saying I had found an even better deal, have tried calling you but couldn't get through.
I then at lunchtime received an email from him saying he had a problem with his phone, where was the holiday to and that he would see me soon.
I tried calling him again and the phone rang but with an international dialling tone ! So I left a message asking him to call me. His phone is now working fine as he has spoken to his daughter. I got a text this morning saying that he has gone abroad, he needed a break and to stop stressing him ! I sent one back saying all you had to do was tell me, and how does he think I have been feeling the past few days, wondering what the hell was going on.
Now I really don't mind he has gone abroad but I do mind he has lied to me about where he was going. He hasn't even apologised for not telling me and doesnt even see that he has done anything wrong.
Is this the dealbreaker ? I dont see how if I want to I can bring this around, I feel a fool, hurt, upset, angry
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to be thoroughly pissed off that my BF has gone abroad on holiday without telling me !
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cheltenhamgal · 05/06/2009 09:51
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