I really am curious.
We moved to our village 18 months ago. We signed our kids up for the pre-school and I have been attending the local playgroups etc on the days when I'm not working. We've gone along and helped out at the village summer fair etc and tried to generally get on with everyone.
We knew there was a chance that our girls wouldn't get places at the local school as its so popular and we are just out of catchment. They didn't get in and are now signed up to the next village school about 20 minutes away.
Since that news got around, we've been completely dropped by several friends. People I'd thought were good friends. I've called all of them a couple of times with no joy.
Having a chat to a mutual friend today I quietly asked her about it and she said it was because our kids wouldn't be going to the same school.
Her take on it was that these parents are all busy people and people just "don't have time to be friends with people if their kids aren't at school together..they can't share pick ups/school runs and play dates just get too difficult to organise..then at the weekends people spend time with their families".
Now I don't think that's a particulary nice way to treat people and I feel a bit hurt. But I'm a novice in the world of playground politics with my girls only just about to start primary and I just want to know if this sort of thing is considered reasonable, even if not particulary pleasant.
So please - enlighten me!
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to think that other parents shouldn't drop you as a friend, just because your children won't be going to the same school as theirs?
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hattyyellow · 03/06/2009 10:05
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