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to feel unaccountably nervous at the thought of a date with this man?

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RumourOfAHurricane Mon 01-Jun-09 21:39:19

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Doodle2U Mon 01-Jun-09 21:41:15

Trust your instincts - ALWAYS.

thisisyesterday Mon 01-Jun-09 21:41:32


give him a chance I reckon!

ChasingSquirrels Mon 01-Jun-09 21:41:42

I would also be going "oh BLEEE".
But then what do I know!

RumourOfAHurricane Mon 01-Jun-09 21:43:31

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muggglewump Mon 01-Jun-09 21:44:51

Ewww no. Pass on him.
If I was that put off before I met him I know it could only get worse.

BCNS Mon 01-Jun-09 21:45:34

.. I would go on said date... and just see.. and then I would ask him about his PS

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thisisyesterday Mon 01-Jun-09 21:46:01

yes, maybe you do have a suckable bottom lip!

seriously, you can't write someone off just for saying that, he might be lovely in every other way!

RumourOfAHurricane Mon 01-Jun-09 21:46:32

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cocolepew Mon 01-Jun-09 21:47:27

No no no. Suckable? Hes one of those men who suck the face of you instead of kissing properly.

He will also stick his whole tongue in your mouth and twirl it around, while dribbling down your chin.

Though this might appeal to you, then yes go for it.

RumourOfAHurricane Mon 01-Jun-09 21:47:29

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BCNS Mon 01-Jun-09 21:48:09

no no.. you need to go lol.. gawd i'd move the date forward just so I could ask all about the PS.. and why he PS'd and what he meant and etc etc etc..

RumourOfAHurricane Mon 01-Jun-09 21:48:49

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NeedaNewName Mon 01-Jun-09 21:49:37

Oh bless him, maybe he's trying to flirt! Not very well obviously, but he sounds a lot better than the others.

Give him a chance

RumourOfAHurricane Mon 01-Jun-09 21:49:38

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cocolepew Mon 01-Jun-09 21:50:04

Well you need to go so we can laugh at him share in the magic moment.

Doodle2U Mon 01-Jun-09 21:50:24

No, No, No, No, No......he's a duff 'un. As I said, trust your instincts.

Anyone who adds that as a PS at such an early stage, you just know, he'll have you wearing a cowboy hat, thigh high boots and a string of pearls, screaming "Ride me hard Cowboy - take me til my teeth rattle".

lilackaty Mon 01-Jun-09 21:50:52

I went on POF and met a few nice blokes - heard from lots of dodgy ones.
I would keep emailing him and see if he says anything else dodgy.

SarahL2 Mon 01-Jun-09 21:51:11

If it makes you feel any better Shiney, I met my husband on Dating Direct - not sure I would have gone on a date with him if he'd told me I had a "suckable bottom lip" though.

My first reaction is avoid I'm afraid. Or maybe talk to him online for a little longer to see if he can redeem himself hmm

BCNS Mon 01-Jun-09 21:51:16

lord don't kiss him .. just ask ( loudly if it's going awfully) what he meant by suckable bottom lip.. why not the top one?? is there something wrong with the top one.. ??

RumourOfAHurricane Mon 01-Jun-09 21:52:05

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skidoodle Mon 01-Jun-09 21:52:25

I know what he means and just that phrase alone wouldn't put me off if everything else was right.

I agree with Doodle2U though - trust your instincts. Something in your interaction with him is making you nervous (I assume you don't mean in an excited, sweaty palms, teenagery way, which would be nice).

You owe this guy nothing. You've invested nothing in the relationship. If he already gives you the creeps and you haven't even met him, then please don't give him the chance to affect you negatively in a way that might actually make a difference.

RumourOfAHurricane Mon 01-Jun-09 21:53:30

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cocolepew Mon 01-Jun-09 21:54:02

Have you got a top lip? hmm

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