I recently was contacted by an old friend from school through FB.
We were good friends through school till about age 15.
(now both 49). It was lovely to get in touch, meet up ( we had a get tog with partners and our teenage kids), all good stuff.DH was initially wary as I have a history of attracting lost souls ( MALE) who mistake my friendliness for something else. He has a fair point, and I have not set sensible boundaries in the past.
But he keeps contacting me, and I am getting alittle weary.
He sends 3 or 4 messages a week on FB and texts at least once a week saying stuff like "hi how is your day going?".
I have a very busy life (dont we all) and little time to see my good friends.
We have met for coffee 3 times , just the two of us , and have had 4 couple/ family get togethers in the last 2 months. Dh is getting fed up of this as he is not that sociable to start with and feels little in common with this man.
AIBU to try to take a step back and how the hell do I do it?
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AIBU?
to feel uncomfortable with this old friend (facebook again)
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hambler · 03/05/2009 23:43
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