I know I am really, btw.
DS3 has asd, he is transferring to a SN school at Easter.
His one to one fell out with the Head and is leaving before that anyway.
there is no replacement NNEB coming in and theirs is the only class without an NNEB.
Everymorning I struggle to get to his 1-1 to handover as the other parents in the class have ioentiied her as class helper even though they know her role, I have to push past all their requests to make sure X doesn'ttalk to Y etc etc (it really does get like that).
This morning the group was tighter than normal. I won't go in as the Dh of one Mum(who is lovely in herself) verbally abused me abdly alst year with relation to DS1 (also asd). Dont tneed to rake that up again but thats why I am wary.
1-1 eventually just walks away with them still shouting orders at her and whisopers to me that they know she is going and have been firing questions to her about DS3 and what will he do in class /who will help him (God forbid he goes close to their kids after all- might be infectious - oh he'snot aggressive btw).
She pointed out she can't tell them anything but tehy still aimed questions at her.
AIBU in thinking they should just ask me? I'm there every day, have known many for years. One Mum I can understand being concerned (her daughter needs lots of support as has cancer, LEA rules mean she can't get a 1-1 herself which I think is very wrong). But if they ask I
can reassure that ds3 won't take up their precious teacher ratio any more, God forbid.
I'm sick of ds being whispered about: he's lovely,never harmed a soul but does need extra attention. Besides I wouldn't dream of asking for confidential info about their children. Why should they do this at ds3?
I'm not hiding ds3's SN place at all, i fought for it for years but the more they do this themroe contrary I get and want to wind themup that he is staying without a helper.
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to want to stand in the middle of this group of parents and yell FGS ask me don't talk about me!
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Peachy · 24/02/2009 10:55
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