I am outraged.... what sort of man is he? He doesn't actually pay any maintenance but as the divorce/financials (he left me for another with two small kids in Dec 07) has dragged on for so long I have instigated CSA proceedings. I have been very generous with access, letting him see the kids three weekends every month.. they are just little and I want them to have a relationship with their father.... then he does this! Does he not realise that is not about us but about his lovely children. How great that you can just choose when you want to have them and if it's too much trouble or your have a form to fill in, you just don't bother! At christmas he was going to send them back home as the eldest DD was being "naughty"! Sorry .... very angry.... am I being unreasonable?
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looneymum · 05/02/2009 14:25
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