...I suspect I probably am being a bit unreasonable, but tell me what you think.
DH's mother lives 200 miles away from us. BIL & SIL live 2 minutes round the corner from her. Recently she had an operation which means that although she's not 'ill' as such, she's convalescing for about 12 weeks, can't drive in that time, can't really move around much and so is largely housebound. I honestly really do sympathise with her and wish we could do more to help. Also, I don't expect BIL & SIL to do everything, as that's not fair.
However, DH & I have 3 children, the eldest of whom is 5. DH is at work all week, and I do two evenings and all day Saturday as an agency nurse. That means that Sunday is our only day as a family, but since MIL's operation, he's been going there every other weekend for all of Sunday, not getting back until after the children are in bed.
It means we have even less time together, plus I have no time off from work or childcare, he's really knackered (and therefore bad-tempered) from the driving, and it's costing us about £100 extra each month in fuel (might not sound a lot to some of you, but to us it's a lot).
We don't all go because she lives in a tiny little sheltered accommodation flat and she gets really stressed about toddlers in it, plus we'd get back so late on a school night.
I wouldn't ever say to him that he can't go, but AIBU to be a bit fed up with it?
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misshardbroom · 02/11/2008 14:17
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