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to be annoyed that dh cooked himself bacon and eggs for breakfast...

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ScareyBitchFeast Mon 27-Oct-08 10:22:01

he has a week off, starts with this.
shoudl i be a little more patient and understanding and tolerant and he is a MAN and therefore wouldnt dream of cookign for the rest of the family,
as i would hmm

meandmyjoe Mon 27-Oct-08 10:25:11

Oooo, angry you aren't being unreasonable. Men are lazy arses!

ScareyBitchFeast Mon 27-Oct-08 10:25:52

i heart mn smile for agreeing with me -
thus far at least

Mum2OliverJames Mon 27-Oct-08 10:27:18

Divorce him! grin
selfish git!

VinegArghhhWasStabbedInTheTits Mon 27-Oct-08 10:28:01

You should cook yourself a lunch, just for you wink

DecayingDisaster Mon 27-Oct-08 10:28:20

this evening cook extra nice tea for you and the dcs but not him then see what he says.
actually dh did this to me yesterday. i just sighed and ignored it because he is a man and won't notice or change.

CapnJadetheKnife Mon 27-Oct-08 10:28:29

I would be angry

and would have said something.

But that would be the end of it. I wouldn't let it ruin another day.

filz Mon 27-Oct-08 10:29:06

i would kill him

VinegArghhhWasStabbedInTheTits Mon 27-Oct-08 10:29:08

i meantr to put nice lunch, sorry for typos i am wearring gloves

expatinscotland Mon 27-Oct-08 10:29:14

He's a man so it's cool to be selfish and lazy?


CapnJadetheKnife Mon 27-Oct-08 10:29:36

"i just sighed and ignored it because he is a man and won't notice or change."

yes of course all men are incapable fools and it has nothing to do with you not tackling it so he never feels he has to change hmm

What a load of rubbish.

ScareyBitchFeast Mon 27-Oct-08 10:30:36

oh no - i was thinking Am I bad tempered spoilt person for being cross - is it too much MN that makes me cross - It is Not Fair sort of thinking.
but no,
will get over it -put it down to lazy arse husband syndrome hmm

expatinscotland Mon 27-Oct-08 10:30:36

Amen, Capn!

anniemac Mon 27-Oct-08 10:33:42

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missmama Mon 27-Oct-08 10:34:29

I would have eaten it and then asked him where his was.

DecayingDisaster Mon 27-Oct-08 10:34:40

and there are things that matter so therefore i pick my fights. breakfast is not one of those things.

ScareyBitchFeast Mon 27-Oct-08 10:35:49

he is a pretty selfish git tbh - as proved - i hope he choked on it - angry - seriouly - he won't do it again - unless he wants me to scarper off to work to leave him to do all meals for the week

ScareyBitchFeast Mon 27-Oct-08 10:36:24

lol missmama grin

FAQ Mon 27-Oct-08 10:36:43

some people just do their relationships like that - my Aunt has been married to her DH for over 30yrs - and they still generally cook/prepare their own meals! They're very happy together though

nailpolish Mon 27-Oct-08 10:37:10

at least he didnt lie in his bed and ask you to do it

actually, my dh does this. he knows me and the dds are all capable of saying "oh can i have some"
and he would gladly cook for us
he is just a man of few words

TrinityRhino Mon 27-Oct-08 10:37:23

why are you wearing gloves?

nailpolish Mon 27-Oct-08 10:38:45

havent you ever made yourself a cup of tea without asking every otehr single person arond you if they want one too

you sound very exasperatig to live with

anniemac Mon 27-Oct-08 10:39:26

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Tinkerisdead Mon 27-Oct-08 10:40:02

Oh my dh did this yesterday, on golf days he wakes up and makes himself scrambled eggs on toast. so i waited until he came upstairs and said, im not making your dinner tonight.
and i didnt!

nailpolish Mon 27-Oct-08 10:42:13

my dh would say "dont you ahve a tongue in your head? if you want some then flippin ASK!"

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