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to be annoyed that dh cooked himself bacon and eggs for breakfast...

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ScareyBitchFeast · 27/10/2008 10:22

he has a week off, starts with this.
shoudl i be a little more patient and understanding and tolerant and he is a MAN and therefore wouldnt dream of cookign for the rest of the family,
as i would

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meandmyjoe · 27/10/2008 10:25

Oooo, you aren't being unreasonable. Men are lazy arses!

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ScareyBitchFeast · 27/10/2008 10:25

i heart mn for agreeing with me -
thus far at least

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Mum2OliverJames · 27/10/2008 10:27

Divorce him!
selfish git!

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VinegArghhhWasStabbedInTheTits · 27/10/2008 10:28

You should cook yourself a lunch, just for you

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DecayingDisaster · 27/10/2008 10:28

this evening cook extra nice tea for you and the dcs but not him then see what he says.
actually dh did this to me yesterday. i just sighed and ignored it because he is a man and won't notice or change.

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CapnJadetheKnife · 27/10/2008 10:28

I would be

and would have said something.

But that would be the end of it. I wouldn't let it ruin another day.

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filz · 27/10/2008 10:29

i would kill him

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VinegArghhhWasStabbedInTheTits · 27/10/2008 10:29

i meantr to put nice lunch, sorry for typos i am wearring gloves

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expatinscotland · 27/10/2008 10:29

He's a man so it's cool to be selfish and lazy?

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CapnJadetheKnife · 27/10/2008 10:29

"i just sighed and ignored it because he is a man and won't notice or change."

yes of course all men are incapable fools and it has nothing to do with you not tackling it so he never feels he has to change

What a load of rubbish.

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ScareyBitchFeast · 27/10/2008 10:30

oh no - i was thinking Am I bad tempered spoilt person for being cross - is it too much MN that makes me cross - It is Not Fair sort of thinking.
but no,
will get over it -put it down to lazy arse husband syndrome

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expatinscotland · 27/10/2008 10:30

Amen, Capn!

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anniemac · 27/10/2008 10:33

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missmama · 27/10/2008 10:34

I would have eaten it and then asked him where his was.

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DecayingDisaster · 27/10/2008 10:34

and there are things that matter so therefore i pick my fights. breakfast is not one of those things.

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ScareyBitchFeast · 27/10/2008 10:35

he is a pretty selfish git tbh - as proved - i hope he choked on it - - seriouly - he won't do it again - unless he wants me to scarper off to work to leave him to do all meals for the week

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ScareyBitchFeast · 27/10/2008 10:36

lol missmama

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FAQ · 27/10/2008 10:36

some people just do their relationships like that - my Aunt has been married to her DH for over 30yrs - and they still generally cook/prepare their own meals! They're very happy together though

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nailpolish · 27/10/2008 10:37

at least he didnt lie in his bed and ask you to do it

actually, my dh does this. he knows me and the dds are all capable of saying "oh can i have some"
and he would gladly cook for us
he is just a man of few words

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TrinityRhino · 27/10/2008 10:37

vinegARRGH
why are you wearing gloves?

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nailpolish · 27/10/2008 10:38

havent you ever made yourself a cup of tea without asking every otehr single person arond you if they want one too

you sound very exasperatig to live with

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Tinkerisdead · 27/10/2008 10:40

Oh my dh did this yesterday, on golf days he wakes up and makes himself scrambled eggs on toast. so i waited until he came upstairs and said, im not making your dinner tonight.
and i didnt!

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nailpolish · 27/10/2008 10:42

my dh would say "dont you ahve a tongue in your head? if you want some then flippin ASK!"

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LoolaBoys · 27/10/2008 10:43

THat is so selfish. for you.

Vinegar your name should have been in the competition shortlist

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