Bit of background, DP and I have been together for 2 1/2 years. He has 2 DC from first marriage age 5 and 6, I have 2 DC from my first marriage age 7 and 9. We live together and are getting married next year.
I am deperate to have another baby, its all i can think about, DP wants one too but is really worried about the impact on our lives finacially.
I won't work with a baby so we'll lose my wages. Which also means we'll have to sell my car and that basically each month will be a bit of a struggle. We'l just about be able to cover the basics but extras will be out of the window including holidays, although we will be able to go camping, have a big tent etc.
So am i being unreasonable, I'm worried that I am being selfish because we'll be broke. But at least we'll be happy, and thats all that matters at the end of the day right??
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memoo · 25/10/2008 07:15
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