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To be very upset about my step sister joining this facebook 'group'

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mamakim · 23/10/2008 21:01

Just been on fb and on the newsfeed i saw my ss has joined a group entitled "for anyone who hates all packies"! Her dad married my mum a year ago and we're recently become friends. She's quiet different to me but seeing as we're now related i make an effort with her. Her dd is a similar age to my ds so we've been on playdates, out of lunch etc. Now i have seen this i feel utterly discusted. I want to have nothing to do with her. What should i do? Confront her about it? Ignore it and just be casual with her at family gettogethers? I'm really shocked. I didn't ever imagine such an attitude from her. I have never seen any signs of this. Oh and surely facebook should ban such 'groups'?

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peenutt · 23/10/2008 21:04

get over it!!!

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thisisyesterday · 23/10/2008 21:04

I would imagine that facebook would ban such groups. flag it up with them and see what happens.

i am not sure what I would do. erm, I definitely woulodn't want much to do with her though

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tigger32 · 23/10/2008 21:04

that such groups are allowed on Fb, YANBU she sounds like she's better kept at a distance if they are her opinions

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tigger32 · 23/10/2008 21:06

Just thinking, have definitlely read it right?

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tigger32 · 23/10/2008 21:06

thats have you definitly read it right?

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mamakim · 23/10/2008 21:06

Peenut i am shocked that you think i should "get over it"

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tigger32 · 23/10/2008 21:07

my typing is very bad tonight sorry about spelling

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SmallShips · 23/10/2008 21:08

Yuk, i wouldnt be able to get over a family member doing that.

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mamakim · 23/10/2008 21:08

I even clicked on the group to check incase it was an anti-racism group or something but it was disgusting.

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wessexgirl · 23/10/2008 21:09

I agree with thisisyesterday - I'd contact the admins at facebook. I doubt they'd want this kind of thing on their site.

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maretta · 23/10/2008 21:09

Have you clicked on the group to see what it's about- just to check, it could be a pun or something.
That's not the normal spelling.

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peenutt · 23/10/2008 21:10

why are you shocked? It is my opinion and everybody has a different one and just because you don't agree doesn't make it wrong.

Atleast now you don't have to make an effort with her, which by the way is such a bitchy thing to say.

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maretta · 23/10/2008 21:10

oh ok. cross posts

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peenutt · 23/10/2008 21:11

i typed in the exact spelling you have put in your OP into face book and there is no such group.

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AnarchyAunt · 23/10/2008 21:13

Can you link to the group? I have just tried to find it on FB to report it but I can't...

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LynetteScavo · 23/10/2008 21:14

@ peenut.

I too would be disgusted. I'm not sure what you should do, tbh.

Personally, I would either ignore it, or send her an "I'm suprised to see you've joined that group" (depending on whether I'd had a glass of wine) and just be casual with her at family get togethers.

You don't have to see yourself as related to her. DH has "step siblings" that he has aquired in adult hood, and he in no way considers himself to be related to them.

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harleyd · 23/10/2008 21:15

i would be shocked and disgusted at anyone who found this acceptable

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peenutt · 23/10/2008 21:15

@ LynetteScavo

why would you need a glass of wine to send a simple message like that?

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peenutt · 23/10/2008 21:16

i think this thread is a crap attempt at a wind up

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LynetteScavo · 23/10/2008 21:17

Because I hate confrontation, peenut, and usually avoid it at all costs.

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mamakim · 23/10/2008 21:17

"if you all hate packies" it is actually called. Don't see how"making an effort" is a bitchy thing to say, she's someone i've become family members with in the last year so i'm making an effort to get along with her. But now she's outed herself as a racist!

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nooOOOoonki · 23/10/2008 21:19

unlike you your lovely post on another thread peenutt

By peenutt on Thu 23-Oct-08 20:49:50
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EVERYBODY SHOULD VOTE!!!!!!!

LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL

fuck off now dear

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peenutt · 23/10/2008 21:19

so shes one of the 15 people in that group?

it does look shitty TBH.

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mamakim · 23/10/2008 21:21

Of course it's not a wind up. I'm very upset by this. Peenut just get lost.

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AnarchyAunt · 23/10/2008 21:21

I have reported the group.

Link but will only work if you are logged into FB already.

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