I have namechanged as I don't know if SIL uses MN.
I'm expecting my second DC and MIL keeps making snide comments. Its really annoying me and I have to rant on here or I will end up saying something.
First off she told DH to leave and take the kids when I have this one. I am really annoyed by this and all DH says is "I would never do that" which I know he wouldn't. But he let us go away with her knowing she had said this and told me when we got back!!
Second, I didn't BF my first but would like to with this one. Apparently I can't because my DS will be upset and it will cause him to want to move out at an early age(5 she said) because he will know he wasn't BF. I also can't because I didn't bf DS I won't make any milk this time round and because I hate milk and don't drink it, I wont make any milk. All I know is untrue but its still bloody annoying me.
Her latest thing was while at my nephew's birthday party we were all talking about labour as SIL is expecting too. She doesn't want an epidural. When I got asked I didn't get a chance to answer MIL said "Of course she will, she can't cope with pain" URMMMMM Did I have one with DS NOOO!!! I hate needles and the thought of an epidural makes me feel very sick. I did think I'd like one but once I realised what they had to do I changed my mind. When I said that I wasn't going to have one she said "Don't be stupid of course you will" I'm sick of it and so is DH. He spends all his time when he goes to visit defending me.
Am I just over sensitive?
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annoyedwithmil · 18/10/2008 07:50
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