My mother was rushed to hospital today with a condition that rears its head from time to time. She has to stay in, probably for a few days - i might have to tie her to the bed though. That leaves me in charge of her dogs and cats.
My day today has been quite hectic. Get up, take DD to pre-school. Come home, post on here about dodgy curtains and greasy hair, go round to my mums to take her dog out along with mine. She has not been well - find her in a bad way - ring ambulance. Wait for paramedics, organise someone to pick DD up from school (daddy). Go over to the hopsital, no purse, one pound and a mobile with low battery. Do the obligatory wait for doctors, explain my mums condition to doctors (its rare), sit around and wait for x-ray etc before she is moved from A&E to medical assesment ward. Come home, walk her dog, feed her cats, generally tidy up and search high and low in her house for nightgowns, false teeth and cigarrettes. Forgot the cigarrettes.Put chicken on for dinner, on a low heat, tidy up because DP been home with DD so house is a pit. Get DP to drive me to the hospital again, with grumpy DD in back of car. Find mother in new ward, a ten mile hike across the hospital from where she was, trapse over to the ward, she is in a foul mood, wnats to come home, no surprises there - have forgotten her cigarrettes. So, have to then get DP to drive me to shop to buy more - take them back, then have to go and buy her a cup of tea from hospital canteen. Finally can get away, but she calls me back - now, here's the thing.
"When you take my dog out again tonight (im taking him out again then am i??) can you go round to XXX road (a twenty minute walk from her house!) and feed that little black cat i told you about, only i don;t think its owner is feeding it properly and its starving"
Was i unreasonable then to go round to her house, put the dog in the garden as i have already taken the thing out twice today - feed HER cats again, clear up the mess that the dog has made - spend 30 minutes looking for a battery that has come out the back of her phone to make sure the dog hasn't eaten it. Let the cats out, put the dog in and come home, having not fed the cat around the block that isn;t even a fecking stray!!! (ive seen it, its hardly skin and bone) - grrrrrrrrr
And the ironic and not even funny part of this is, i will get no thanks, she will come home and everything will be wrong, i wont have cleaned her house properly, fed the cats properly, the dog will be on its last legs from boredom and she will bloody well moan
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Not to carry out my sick mother's request that she made from her hospital bed
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exasperatedmummy · 16/10/2008 20:59
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