Hi I have a really stroppy aunt. She is 73 and has never married or had children and is very wealthy.
At times she can be very generous and kind but other times she is really rude.
When my son was a baby, I had various mugs done with his photo on them, some with me and him, some him on his own and one with my mum and him on it for my aunt as she is so close to my mum. When I gave it to her she said 'I don't want that one, (the one with my mum and my son) as everyone'll think she's the one bringing him up, mary (her other sister) does anyway'. I am a single parent and my mum had helped me a bit but theres no way she was bringing my son up. I visit my Mum maybe twice a month for lunch etc but no more.
I was really hurt by the comment especially as I was giving her a gift which she was really rude about.
She can't stand my Dad (who admittedly can be quite selfish) but openly said to me 'I don't like him and never have and never will'.
She called me a silly little girl (I'm 42!)when I stood up for him once when she humiliated him at the dinner table.
She is kind and generous when you do things her way, but awful if you don't and gets into terrible sulks if you say the wrong thing.
At the moment she is in a strop with me because there was a terrible incident where someone recently got shot in her area in London. He was shot by someone black. Her cleaner is black and when her cleaner's son was walking around the area he was made by the police to produce ID and say what he was doing in the area. I think this is awful as he is entirely innocent, just the wrong colour in a posh area and shouldn't have to prove himself in this way.
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familyproblems · 05/10/2008 21:47
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