DS came out of school today telling me he had 'found' a card in the playground and traded it with someone for 3 other cards.
I was not happy. I don't like trading at school full stop - it encourages exploitation and makes kids unhappy. The school tried to ban it last year and we had words with DS about it.
I pointed out (in the face of much hysteria from DS) that the card he found was not his so he was not entitled to trade it. I told him he should have handed it in to lost property.
I spoke to his teacher and told her what had happened. DS 'could not remember' who he had traded with , so I told her he would be bringing back the cards on Monday for her to sort out.
He felt humiliated I realise because he hadn't realised he was doing anything others might find upsetting. But I had to point out to him, it was just like the people who happened to 'find' his football boots in the coats area and decide they were taking them home... He said 'yeah well they were only 25 quid'...
At which point I lost it and ranted about morality and poverty and asked how he would feel if I gave his new football boots to someone who had no parents to buy them shite like this.
Not a fun Friday evening but another moral lesson learnt? Or did I overreact and should have just ignored it and let whichever poor child had lost their possibly VERY important card (or more likely, been slightly pressured into trading by DS and his friends?) carry on feeling miserable.
God, it's not exactly the world financial crisis to resolve is it. But these little moral acts bother me.
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to have spoken to DS1s teacher about yet another bloody trading card situation...
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WilfSell · 26/09/2008 22:36
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