Sorry, mils again.
Me, dh and ds (7 months) have returned from short stay at mil's. She was very generous and warm - took us out for lovely lunch and gave me a plant - thanked her for all this and had a few nice times together playing with ds and poring over gardening books.
We intended to leave for long car journey to coincide with ds's nap and said so. She laid out salad and things for lunch and I had something and ds had his. Then, half an hour later dh comes in and she says do you want sausages and she goes off and fries them, then lays the 'other' table outside and her and dh proceed to have a leisurely lunch outside. Meanwhile, car is packed and ds starts fretting, tugging ear and tired.
So when they have finished eating, she offers te and I say, no, we really must go. Mil evidently upset at us going and won't make eye contact with me, and very stiff with me.
Today she has been in tears to dh, saying she doesn't understand why i am so resentful and that I have upset her awfully. AIBU to think she is manipulating and casting me as the villain?
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AIBU?
To be fed up with mil casting me as Cruella Devill?
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mitfordsisters · 25/09/2008 14:22
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