My son and I are moving in with my DP of 2 years because we are due our baby in April. We are getting the keys next week.
Is it too much that I said I don't want him smoking hash in the house?
I hate the stuff and fear the kids would find it and put it in their mouths.
Right now I live on my own with son and have a strict no drugs policy, for the sake of my son.
I have told him this is the one rule that will come with me into new house.
He went mad at me shouting about hash not being a drug, compared to other stuff, and said it's just smoke, it's no different to nicotine
Why does he not see that I'm doing this for the children and it IS dangerous stuff and it IS drugs and is NOT the same as nicotine.
It got to the stage where he was saying if I'm not prepared to accept him smoking it in the house he'd reconsider moving in with us. I told him I'd rather be a single parent and have a safe environment for my children. Am I being unreasonable? Why wont he just deal with it?
Sorry I had to ask people's opinions I'm just about at my wits end
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tristaleejac · 19/09/2008 18:21
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