We have had some troubles and have recently split after some years of physical and mental abuse, but unfortunatley it didnt happen until he hurt my son (i know i should have got out before that happened but as soon as it happened i realised that things couldnt carry on after he hurt my baby)
so i went into the police station and ended up making a 15 page statement on all of the things i could specifically remember him doing to me! there were more things but not that i could remember specific details on
The PC involved he been to see me today and has told me that X has not admitted the alligations and has had his own statement of how things have happened! i am worried about this because to anyone else x seems like a lovely guy, my whole family were completely shocked when i told them what had been going on! i am worried that they will believe him over me!
i dont hink its fair because X obv has read my statement but i am not allowed to know what his says, i know he's not admitting what he has done, and that this is just another way to control me!
He knows that by not admitting it will drag me through court and i dont really want to do that .
HASN'T HE PUT ME THROUGH ENOUGH???
I just wish i knew what what the counterstatement says! have been worrying all day over this!
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Mum2OliverJames · 19/09/2008 00:05
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