i.e. bathing the children, fair enough dd2 when he is on his own in the house i can understand that. but when i am downstairs wheres the problem? i would hear him fitting and know there was something wrong.
or when dd1 is in the bath also. whats wrong with that? she is a very intelligent 4.9 year old who knows that if daddy baths them and gets poorly she has to take the plug out of the bath and 'cuddle' dd2.
he has to be fed regularly and this has to be by me or he may have a fit and it will be my fault . he has to sleep ofen despite things needing doing he has the perfect excuse to lie in bed half the day on his days off.
and guess what? when things do need doing he 'feels funny' and has to lay on the couch. watching me clean up.
he is now shouting and balling downstairs because dd2 hasnt had a bath since sunday and i have said im not bathing her tonight because i feel really ill and am just waiting to go bed.
apparently i am dragging his children up and making them scruffy. i need to 'get my head sorted out' and be a proper mother.
AIBU to think that if he feels this strongly he can do it his bloody self. what does he think id just listen to him fitting from downstairs and not bother going to see to dd2?
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thinking that dh is just using his epilepsy as an excuse not do things/get his own way?
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SheSellsSeashellsByTheSeashore · 17/09/2008 18:53
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