I have always had a difficult relationship with my Mum. I am very close to my Dad and I think that has probably made things worse with my Mum over the years.
My Mum never comes round and says 'Hi, how are you today?'. The conversation always starts with Why haven't you loaded the dishwasher/Why aren't you dressed?/Who's done your hair? or similar. She is always making comments that I 'mard' my children and they need a good smack (like I got). My children are lovely and she only sees them twice a month anyway so how would she know what they need.
This morning my Mum knocked on the door, I shouted for her to wait while I got the keys. When I let her in the first thing she said was 'God, you wouldn't think you were a healthy young lady you sound like an old crone' (she then did an impression of an old crone). I aksed her why she could never start a conversation on a positive note. She asked me if I was hormonal. Typical.
My Mum is so nice to me infront of her friends or my friends but on a one-to-one she can really be horrible.
Anyway, Mum stormed out of the house calling me pathetic. I told her she needs to work on being nicer. Have I over-reacted?
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to be sick of my Mums 'jokey' comments.........
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LouMacca · 16/09/2008 10:50
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