I have changed my name not so much to protect myself but so the identity of the person I am talking about isn't recognised because there are people on here that I know in RL.
I currently work in a local child care facility. There is a boy that I look after who is worrying me and I don't know what to do. He is 6 and behaves in a way that I find unusual for a child of his age.
Firstly on several occasion I have been into the bathroom to find him showing his willy to other boys and trying to get them to show him theirs. This has happened about 4 times. The most worrying time though was when I found him in a cubicle with another boy who was clearly distressed. I asked the other boy what had happen to make him upset and he said that xxxx had been trying to see his willy while he was on the toilet. I have also found this boy in the playtent we have outside, again with another boy showing him his willy.
The second thing that adds to my worry is that I know a person who has taught this boys older sibling and this person once mentioned in passing that this older child always wrote really dark, depressing stories. I myself have met the older child on several occassion and he always appears quite depressed and withdrawn.
I have spoken to my boss about this but he said that some children are just curious about each others 'bits'. I do understand this but I have worked with children for quite a few years now and have never met a child like this before, its just a bad feeling I get.
I have reached the point where I am thinking of making a anonymous call to social services because if I do it without my bosses permission I will be in huge trouble
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NameChangedButARegular · 15/09/2008 21:59
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