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to tell DP that I DON'T want to talk about our relationship tonight............

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FAQ Sat 13-Sep-08 00:15:55

when I've had the day from hell and am still stressed about it??

He seems to think that because I don't want to actually pick up the phone and speak to him in person that I want the relationship to end (perhaps I do - I@m not entirely certain - feel it may have run it's course)......when infact I think it would be much more sensible to talk tomorrow when I've calmed down and got over my cr*p afternoon (which had nothing to do with him in any shape or form).

I'm more than happy to ring him tomorrow, (when I'm in a generally better frame of mind) but he thinks it has to be tonight



BreeVanderCampLGJ Sat 13-Sep-08 00:19:44

He sounds a bit needy....

FAQ Sat 13-Sep-08 00:21:40

yes.....something I've felt increasingly in the last week or so.....

Anyhow, not going to ring him, being picked up at 6.15 to do a carboot sale, still haven't got everything ready and my day hasn't exactly been smooth running today


ethanchristopher Sat 13-Sep-08 21:28:06

maybe he can sense that you want it to end and he doesnt want it to


bloomingfedup Sat 13-Sep-08 21:34:14

Glass of wine YANBU.

FAQ Sat 13-Sep-08 22:34:21

ethan - well to be honest last night I wasn't sure whether I wanted to end it or not - and I'd had one hell of a day - any sort of serious discussion on anything would have been out of the question as I wasn't thinking rationally about anything

Now, having a chance to think about things properly today (and crashing out of the sofa for the last 5hrs) I'm going to ring him tonight.

ladytophamhatt Sat 13-Sep-08 22:37:05

FAQ, are you sure "ethan" isn't your boyf???


Who are you ethan?

FAQ Sat 13-Sep-08 22:44:20

lol - pretty sure ethan isn't my boyf - he didn't finish work until 9.30pm tonight and doesn't have internet access at work grin

Ivegotaheadache Sat 13-Sep-08 22:51:30

Blimey, I can hardly get dh to talk to about the weather, let alone about 'our relationship' grin

FAQ Sat 13-Sep-08 22:52:45

well after all that, waking myself up properly enough to make a phone call where I make sense I keep getting his voice mail ARGHHH - so have sent a text telling him such grin

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