Ok I am a cm, and my 8yr old mindee has struck up a friendship with my new neighbours two daughters who are similar in age.
They are in and out all the time, just walking in the house without knowcking, and were banging on my living room window all through tea, wanting mindee to come back out. Mindee also says can we all have juice/a snack/etc.
I am struggling with money so canot afford to feed and drink other people's kids who live two doors away, and don't need extra children here when I am super duper busy.
Also I am not sure of their exact ages and Ihave to be careful of ratios for my insurance.
I am also cautious as my SIL has always been soft on this, and now has kids constantly in and out of hers, asking for meals/drinks/etc - sometimes their parent even send them round to hers and go off to pub!
Am I being a big meanie?
They alll play in my back garden BTW, at my invitation, and I don't mind this, just don't want to feel put upon, hav enough on without extra responsibilities. (sp?)
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AIBU?
To not want neighbours two girls in and out of my house all day, every day wanting this and that?
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SammyK · 09/09/2008 18:20
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