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to not want my mother's breasts in my face????

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sosowrong Tue 09-Sep-08 15:49:30

Ok, I am seriously angry about this and have to share. Have namechanged through sheer embarassment as am mates with some mnetters in RL.

Long story short, I have been b/feeding DS for 12 weeks now. My mother has always had a problem with it - thinks it's wrong, dirty, disgustintg etc. Anyway, she's been staying with us for a week, constantly commenting on what a dirty mummy I am for "rubbing my breasts in DS' face" - basically encouraging him to latch on.

Yesterday evening I was dozing on the sofa and was woken up by something brushing my face - I opened my eyes and my mother was crouched by the sofa rubbibng her bare breasts in my face!!!! "Now you know how DS feels, iy's horrible isn't it??" she said.

I still feel sick to the pit of my stomach thinking about it. She's always been a bit mental but this, she's crossed a real line. I can't bear to be around her now.

OliverClothesOff Tue 09-Sep-08 15:50:30

is this for real?

MARGOsBeenPlayingWithMyNooNoo Tue 09-Sep-08 15:50:56

omg! I'm lost for words.

beansmum Tue 09-Sep-08 15:51:29

I feel a bit sick.

andiem Tue 09-Sep-08 15:51:45

chuck her out
what a horrible horrible thing to do to you
it is emotional and physical abuse I feel so sad for you
I would just tell her that her behaviour is not acceptable and she is to leave

MaryAnnSingleton Tue 09-Sep-08 15:52:11

shock !!! she is barking ! that is appalling

daftpunk Tue 09-Sep-08 15:52:26

back to the point i made on my thread earlier...everyone on munsnet is a bit nuts, and this proves it!

poppy34 Tue 09-Sep-08 15:52:54

I am not she still staying with you? you really have got to say something as she has stepped WAY over the line here and farinkly you do wonder where it ends

beansmum Tue 09-Sep-08 15:52:56

Is she still staying with you?! Tell her to leave.

RhinestoneCowgirl Tue 09-Sep-08 15:53:13

That's outrageous behaviour - does she have mental health issues?

harleyd Tue 09-Sep-08 15:53:31


differentID Tue 09-Sep-08 15:53:31

chuck her out and tell her not to come back until she grows up!

MrsMattie Tue 09-Sep-08 15:53:59

is she mentally unstable? She sounds it! So sorry for you. Can you tell her to please leave your house???

KVC Tue 09-Sep-08 15:54:23

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FioFio Tue 09-Sep-08 15:54:43

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onceinalifetime Tue 09-Sep-08 15:54:44

Was she drunk? Sorry, it's your mum - tell her to go home and leave you alone.

sosowrong Tue 09-Sep-08 15:55:39

She is a bit strange - my brother told her once that when she was younger she faked appendicitis so they would operate on her. She has done quite a few other weird things over the years too but nothing quite like this.

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wuzzlefraggle Tue 09-Sep-08 15:56:04

i second the hmm

thats just grim - why the hell would someone do that???!!!???!!!

LittleMissBliss Tue 09-Sep-08 15:56:05

That is bloody awful. You poor thing! I think you need to get some help for your mum she is out of order! Carry on with bf you are doing a great thing for your baby.

AphroditeInHerNightie Tue 09-Sep-08 15:56:06


Woman has issues.

more Tue 09-Sep-08 15:56:19

Does she find this funny?

Sparkletastic Tue 09-Sep-08 15:56:20

I'm fervently praying that you are trolling.

If not - tell her to go NOW and that you need a very long break from her.

LouMacca Tue 09-Sep-08 15:57:15

Your mum obviously has some issues.

This is awful for you. Sending you (hugs)

wuzzlefraggle Tue 09-Sep-08 15:57:53

Sparkle - I'm sort of hoping this is a bit of trolling too as I can't believe that someones mum would do this kind of thing!

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