I've just started back, and she's a member of DPs family. She wants to look after my 16 week old DS once a week for 4 hours, but this means her and her skanky immature mates.
She's very, very young for her age and although she seems to look after everybody elses kids she hasn't got her own. She's usually good with them over all but I've seen her teaching swearwords to a 12 month old and feeding him chocolate until he was sick. Obviously now he swears like a trooper and is very naughty and quite fat in all honesty.
DPs family will HATE me if I say no, and DP said he trusts her and doesn't want me kicking up a fuss. And I know I'm being a little PFB, but I'm worried she'll not look after him properly. And her friends are DREADFUL girls who drink all day long and sleep around and swear like mad, and they've never looked after babies and they all (well 3 of them) have a really big thing for my DP and really don't like me much at all (well 1 more than the others).
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to not want a 20 year old really immature girl to look after Ds while I'm at work.
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BabbaMamma · 08/09/2008 19:23
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