I feel so so horrible for feeling the way I do, but its starting to get me down.
My Grt Aunt has recently passed away and my aunt who lived with her all her life was left on her own. DH and I encouraged her to move closer to us so we could be company for her, and she wouldn't be on her own.
She is in mid 50's abd is a very private person with few friends outside family. She lived in Greater London before and worked in Cntral London. She has now moved to us in 3 Counties and commutes to work daily.
As I work near the bus terminal, most days I travel to work with her. At weekends we knew we would always make time for her and it was'nt a problem. But in the 9 weeks she has lived nearby she has been at our house by 9.30 every Saturday and spends the whole day till the children go to bed and I take her home.
If we go out on Sundays 2 out of 3 times we'll invite her which she always accepts.
She is wonderful with our 2 children and always treats them and gives them attention, much better than their own grandparents. And she offers to babysit - I try to use my other friends instead as the last time when DS woke at night she had him out of bed playing at 11pm.
This weekend though feels like the final straw. She bought a lot of garden items and furniture which have arrived and DH offered to go and help her with them. So she arrived at 9.30am yesterday and then when DH got in from work at 1pm he and DD1 went over there for the rest of the day. He has been there again today for 3 hours so far and is planning on going out at 3.30 - so I will have seen nothing of him this weekend.
I know I am being unreasonable, but I dont want this to get out of hand to where I start to resent the poor woman.
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Lowfat · 31/08/2008 13:25
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