..when DH doesn't???
We have 2 gorgeous boys already so feel very lucky.
I've had multiple mcs and if we tried again would likely have more so there's the worry for my health. I'm 38 and so there's the worry about downs etc. I'm the main breadwinner so it would mean putting alot of plans on hold and would mean DH staying off work even longer while bub was tiny. Financially we could cope but it would be a stretch. Practically there's all the added complications of the dcs outnumbering the adults, the awkwardness of 5 in restaurants on hols, on outings etc. DH thinks (and he's probably right) I'm trying to replace the baby I lost with the first mc so there's alot of grief and loss tied up there that he jsut doesn't understand (don't expect him to and don't have a problem with that).
I know all this and can see the practical, sensible reasons to stick with what we've got and focus on the future but I just want to be pregnant again, to bring another life into the world and have a tiny bubba again. I just can't shake the feeling and its getting me down now.
Am I being unreasonable?
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Pheebe · 30/08/2008 11:14
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