We went to a wedding last Friday of close friends.
Just found out yesterday that at said wedding another friend was basically verbally assaulted by a bloke that we all loosely know.
It went along the lines of ....
Him "I cant believe that you dont let your DH play football on Sat afternoons"
Her "I do but I dont want him playing away games as it takes all day and I am with the kids all week and want him to be around on a Sat"
Him " Fxxxxx Hell, you sit on your arse all week with your kids whilst he goes off to work and you dont let him have his Saturdays"
Her "Excuse me but I do not "sit on my arse all week" and i used to do stuff on Saturdays that I can no longer do"
Him "Its a fxxxxxx joke" blah blah blah.
She ended up crying and going home.
She has a 4 month old and a 3 year old. She is only off work on maternity leave and normally works 3 days a week - not that that should be relevant.
He was very drunk and has 2 grown up teenage kids, he had no involvement in their upbringing. In fact, he doesnt treat his wife very well at all.
I think its completely out of order? My friend went home as she didnt want to cause a scene at a wedding.
Her DH never stood up for her (he is lovely but not confrontational at all)
In fact drunken bloke apologised to HIM (after seeing my friend cry) and he said "oh no worries"!!
My friend has now fallen out with her DH for not sticking up for her. Drunken bloke is a loose acquaintance of his. She wants him to call him and tell him that it wasnt an acceptable way to talk to his wife - what do you think?
My DH thinks leave it be.
I personally would have thrown my drink on him (minus the glass!)
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pamelat · 29/08/2008 09:53
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