AIBU? A lady I know is 13 weeks pregnant and she has 2 dc already one is nearly 4 and the other is 1.
She is dealing with social services as they suspected she was hitting her dc's (I witnessed this twice and reported it.) Her partner is a cocaine addict and frequently smokes weed.
Her and her partner have learning disabilities and her eldest dc has learning disabilities and they just cant cope as they dont get the support they need.
Social services already visit them twice a week for various things and have told them that if she goes ahead with the pregnancy then they will take all the dc off of them when this one is born.
Every friday she comes around to my house expecting lunch and dinner (but I can't not feed them as she never brings food for the dc's as she says she has no money and I can't see them starve) telling me she wants to buy all these double buggies that she really cant afford and the dc's have new clothes twice a month.
Do you think that she is being selfish by having this baby knowing that social will take them off her or should she enjoy the two she has until they can cope bettr than they are now?
AIBU?
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AIBU?
to think this lady shouldn't have her baby? (sorry long one)
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gemdangracie · 21/08/2008 22:57
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