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i havent been here long and ive been made very welcome.i think lots of posting is the key!

You're being paranoid.

Now, just get stuck in and post

I'm sure you haven't been blacklisted. I haven't a clue who has argued with whom. People just respond to what happens to interest them.

Yes, there is a blacklist and you are at the top of it in big letters, I just checked!

No, love, you are being paranoid - life's too short & MN is too big - just keep posting

i have been here forever and still dont always get replies

i woudnt take it personally, sometimes threads get missed if its v busy and drop off active convos quickly, other times there might not be many people about

I have posted on here for less than a year and sometimes you get noticed and sometimes you don't.

Threads move very quickly and it is easy to get overlooked. Please don't take it personally.

If you did an AIBU then you will get lots of different opinions and some that you won't like.

Just keep diving in tis the only way to go.

Btw I am sure people do not get blacklisted.

You are being paranoid (so long as your spat idn't involve saying that all MNers were useless idiots!!! )

As shitewhawk says, get stuck in!

There is a definite in-crowd. But I think it takes about 5 years to become a member...

bird... you should either go back to your original name and post or continue to use this name, accept your paranoia as such and post forthwith.

Honestly... there are so many reasons to stay with MN. Remember as well that it is a huge site with lots of posters. I'm sure that whoever it was that you argued with has probably (and I don't mean it cruelly) forgotten your name.

So... stop the whingeing (brutal I know) and post!

In the spirit of starting again...

Welcome to Mumsnet

i think you are paranoid

no idea wo is amn superstar of which u speak

it is a big place

er everyone has unanswered postsa

who exactly would organise blacklisting and how?

so er just npost more or less but more in a confined space

if you dont post much u wont be recognised particularly because most people dont notice posters names unless they post a lot

its pretty hard to be noticed lol

oh god, I've got a while to go then!!

That's a bit over the top VVVQV

blimey bellavita, less than a year? I'd've thought it was longer than that... but then my memory isn't what it was. I blame the icecream!

I am brand new to MN too and my impression is that depending on time of day/level of interest in topic/personally speaking: whether I can bother to type with one hand as DS on other arm , responese vary.

I love the fact one can say something controversial and it is still (quite) anonymous . Having said that, it was me who blacklisted you .

I do hope not as this is my first post I don't want to get black balled so soon

Hello to all

it's been a whole five minutes since we've had one of these threads.

Don't take it personally. Do agree that MN can be cliquey at times though...

Worse than being ignored is having a lynch mob after you (remembers my posts on disabled parking with a shudder)

you are completely paranoid.
i have been here a couple of years. Sometimes people respond, often times people ignore me.
I figure it is that sometimes what I say strikes a cord, other times I am boring as old shite.

Do you seriously think that an arbitary group of people secretly send messages telling hundreds of other women to ignore you because you may have offended someone?

you will have to accept you are just a member of the boring as shite group
and for what it is worth I don't remember ever having read anything from you.

<< pag deals effectively with the query and is comfortable in her assessment>>

<< yet now is privately worried that everyone is on msm telling each other to ignore her >>

<< hello...>>

oh i expect my mumsnet in crowd documents in the post any time lol

<<mental note to blackball travelling>>

I have heard tell of an Excel spreadsheet ...

i rarely remember who i have agreed or disagreed with on here