Dh made dinner last night (I had to help as he couldn't manage it all at once , he offered to help me with the kitchen, and didn't, so after finishing work today I have to go home and clean the kitchen and litter tray (which he promised to do yesterday and didn't) etc.
Before going home I was going to walk into town with the dc and get some fresh veg etc for tea. I am doing Chicken and mushroom pie with boiled tatties and veg and then get/make something nice for dinner.
When I asked him what he wanted he said anything, I told him what I was doing, he said 'no, dont want that, do something else', the phrase kiss my arse came into my head.
AIBU to be fed up with his faddy eating etc? He is like it ALL the time and i have to constantly change meals etc, and now dd2 is becoming just like her dad and barely eats anything.
Don't ask then. Also if my dp said they were cooking me that meal I'd say, I don't want it too as I don't like mushrooms, but I wouldn't say 'do something else' I'd say 'Is there anything else you could do instead?' and if there wasn't then 'Ok, don't worry about it I'll do myself something later'.
YANBU to not like what he said but YABU to expect him to eat whatever you fancy cooking.
Is this really about him not wanting tea? (I'm confused by tea&dinner btw) or that he isn't good at cooking dinner/cleaning the kitchen?